Gordon Neufield, Gabor Mate

We parents understand the basic concept that our children should care what we think more than what their peers think. But we don't always know how to make it happen. If children want to please their parents more than their peers, it saves them--and us--a lot of grief. This book unpacks the psychological aspects of biblical nurturing. The book includes true examples, behavior that reveals peer orientation and simple ways to reconnect with our children when we feel them drifting. This is not rocket science, but it's pretty important.